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How To Use A Sex Doll - Silicon Wives Guide

 

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In this article you can find out everything you will ever need know about using a sex doll!

 

If you’ve just purchased a sex doll, congratulations are in order. You’ve made a great investment. A sex doll can provide companionship, sexual satisfaction, even add some unique spice to your relationships. A sex doll doesn’t care about your job, car, looks, or the contents of your wallet. They’re always up for a good time, and will never judge you for your fantasies or your hangups.

Now for the most important thing of all. This is a big investment. You may have even gone into debt to buy your doll. We want to make sure that you get the most out of your investment. To help you out, we’ve created this ‘user’s guide’. Here, we’ll cover everything you need to know about your sex doll, how to take care of it, and how to get the most pleasure in your new relationship.

First things first though! If you haven’t made a purchase, check out our sex doll buyer’s guide. It has all the information you need to choose the perfect companion. Get the right doll for your lifestyle and personal preferences, and you’re already off to a great start.

 

 

Unboxing & Assembling Your Sex Doll

 

The day has finally arrived! A couple of weeks ago you did your research, you found the best sex doll store online (wink wink) and you found the doll of your dreams.  This is the girl you’ve seen in your fantasies, and she has finally arrived.  You’ve tracked her movement across the globe, from our manufacturing facility to the shipping facility, and now she is on your door step.  

You can barely contain your excitement when you see the box on your porch.  You barely notice the delivery guy, and your hand slightly shakes as you sign for the package.  All your thoughts are on the box, and even more, what’s inside of it.  But wait hold your horses cowboy! There is still one more important step before you bed your new lover, you must take care to unbox and assemble her properly.  

 

Step 1: Carefully transport the package to a room in your home with lots of floor space.

One thing that surprises many people when they first receive their sex doll is how heavy the package is.  Most full-size sex dolls weight between 50 and 70 pounds plus all the packaging weight! Your fully packaged sex doll could possibly weigh up to 80 pounds when she arrives.  If you are disabled, elderly, or live in a 5th floor walk-up apartment, you should be prepared for how your going to move this package.  A close friend may be a good helper, or you can tip the delivery guy to help you.  

A room with a good amount of floor space is a good place to unpack your sex doll as you’ll need to lay her flat on the group beside the box.  

 

Step 2: Open the package along the seams with a boxcutter, knife, etc.

Once the package is placed on the floor in your room of choice, cut the tape along the top edges of the box to open her up.  Be careful not to go too deep with the knife as you don’t want to risk cutting your new favorite sex partner.  Once you’ve cut the packing tape along the seams the box will open up much like a coffin.  

 

Step 3: Wash your hands! 

Now that your new sex doll is ready to be taken out of her box you don’t want to smudge or mark her pristine skin with your dirty hands! Wash your mitts thoroughly before touching the sex doll.  

 

Step 4: Unpack the head of your new sex doll 

Resting on the upper thighs of your sex doll will be a soccer ball sized sphere of packing foam, this is the head of your new sex doll.  Carefully remove to foam wrapping and take the head of it’s bag. Please the sex doll head on top the bag on the floor next to the box.  You’ll return to it later once you’ve got the body out.  

Tip: You can save the bag to store the head when not in use.

 

Step 5: Remove any other accessories in the box

Often times accessories will be included in the package like clothing, a closet storage system, and cleaning tools.  Remove all of these things from the box and set them aside.  After this step all that should be left in the box is the body of the doll and the blanket that she rests on. 

 

Step 6: Remove the foam from the body of the doll with a pair of scissors

It is very important to be careful during this part. This video shows exactly how you should go about removing the foam from the body of the doll: 

 

Step 7: Lift the doll out of the box with the blanket   

Wrap your arms around the doll and blanket and lift her out of the box placing her gently on the floor beside it.  

Step 8: Attach the head to your new sex doll and put on the wig

This video is in Chinese but if you follow what she does you’ll properly install your sex doll’s head and wig:

 

Congratulations! You’re done unboxing your sex dolls

 

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Making Love to Your Doll

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If you came to read about the main event, here it is. although there are some exceptions, most of our customers purchase these dolls for realistic, sexual companionship. They are designed for this purpose, and are sure to provide you with plenty of pleasure and excitement. The key is to stick to some best practices so that you have an amazing experience, and your sex doll is there for you for years to come.

 

Vaginal sex with your doll

 

This is one of the most common ways for people to enjoy their silicone dolls. Every female sex doll we sell comes with a fully functional vagina.  For many of our dolls you have your choice between a removable or fixed vagina. We include the depth of each doll vaginal opening on our website. Be sure to select a doll that can accommodate your size.

All of our dolls are composed of silicon or TPE. Both are extraordinarily realistic feeling.  Our vaginas are made for pleasure, and designed so that it feels as if you are having sex with a real live human.

The process works just like you would imagine. You position the doll the way you like, then you penetrate the doll and continue as you normally would. The friction and pressure combined, feels absolutely amazing.

We are often asked if it is okay for men to finish inside of their dolls. The answer is yes. This is a very common practice, and our dolls were designed for it. later, we'll get into some details about taking care of your doll after that part is over.

 

Anal sex with your doll

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So many people fantasize about anal sex. It is normal, healthy, and very pleasurable for many people. The bad news is that it can be difficult to find a willing partner, let alone one to actually enjoys being on the receiving end is this. Great news! Both our male and female dolls are functional in this way. Our product engineers I have work hard to design the dolls so that you get a realistic, super tight, intense experience that is guaranteed to blow your mind.

 

Sex dolls and oral sex

 

We've already explored the topic, ‘is a blow job from a sex doll The same as getting a blow job from a person?’ The answer is no they are not the same. There are pros and cons for both. Still, a sex doll blow job is pretty damn fun. Think of it like this. When the manufacturer creates a sex doll, the mouth only has to do two things. It has to look nice and it has to provide pleasure. You'll need Lube of course but you'll never have to worry about your dolls gag reflex whether she gets a stiff neck, or how she'll react when you finish.

 

Lubricants and your sex doll

Most people make the choice to use a lubricant so that their sexual experiences are easy and pleasurable. If you do this, always choose a water-based lubricant. Oil-based or silicone-based lubricants can damage your dolls, and cause staining. KY Jelly in Astroglide are two examples of water-based lubricants.

Apply lubricant any place that you intend to penetrate. Just don't go overboard. If you attempt to use too many things will get sticky and messy quickly. Here is a bit of a sex doll life Pro tip. If you think you need a bit more lubrication, try adding just a tiny amount of warm water instead. This can reactivate the lubricant And is often all you need to continue with your experience.

There are some people who prefer to take a dryer approach. For this purpose, they often use powder. This reduces friction but creates a very different sexual


Sex Doll Storage

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Now your sex doll is assembled and ready to go, it’s time to think about storage. Don’t get us wrong! If you are comfortable with your doll hanging out in the open, we’re all for it. Still, most people want to be a bit more discreet. This is why every doll we sell comes with a storage kit. You can use this to hang your doll in a closet or other space while you aren’t using it.


If you would like another option, we do sell a storage case. This attractive looking case looks as if it could store any number of things. Nobody will ever suspect you’re keeping a sex doll in there. Even better, if you have enough clearance under your bed, just slide the storage case under there. That way, your doll takes up almost no space whatsoever.


Both silicone and TPE are somewhat temperature sensitive. This is something to be aware of when you decide where you will store your doll. Your sex doll will be fine as long as it’s kept within a reasonable range of temperatures. However, there could be cracking or warping under extreme hot or cold conditions. For example, a hot attic without ventilation or air conditioning in the summer months is not the ideal place for your doll.


Dressing Your Sex Doll

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This is an area where opinions can really vary. For some of our customers, their doll is strictly functional. Clothing is just unnecessary nuisance that they don’t bother with. If you have no interest in dressing your doll, you can just skip this part. We understand completely.

If you do want to dress your doll in a variety of outfits and costumes, you aren’t alone. For many people, this is part of the fun and fantasy of owning a sex doll. You can use clothing to act out fantasies, or to role-play. Many of our clients enjoy buying clothing and accessories just like they would buy gifts for any special companion.

If you love the idea of buying clothes and accessories for your sex doll, we have some great tips for you.

  • Our dolls are very petite. You will get your best results shopping in stores for petite Women and sting with small and XS sizes. For numbered sizes in the United States try a size zero or one.
  • We include each dolls measurements. If you give this information to sales staff in higher end stores, they can recommend the right size to you.
  • Try purchasing a few inexpensive articles of clothing first until you find the right size. This way you won’t spend too much money on anything that isn’t a perfect fit.
  • Safety pins are very handy! They can pin back shirts and skirts that are just a bit too big. This will create a very attractive silhouette.

In any case, remember that this is supposed to be enjoyable. Experiment with different styles. Order a few lingerie catalogs. You can even look into cosplay options for your sex doll. Have you fantasized about spending time with a police officer, stripper, cheerleader, even your favorite video game character? This is your chance to role-play and act out your hottest fantasies.


Accessorizing Your Doll

 

If you enjoy dressing your doll, you can also add a few accessories. A nice bracelet, for example, or anklet can be very attractive. Just be careful. Avoid using jewelry or other accessories that are too heavy, or that could stain or scar your doll. Remove any accessories when you are finished. It’s never a good idea to store your doll while it’s wearing any extra jewelry.


Your Doll’s Hairstyle

 

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Your doll will arrive at your home with a wig. You can also purchase additional wigs for your doll. If you take good care of your wigs, they will last a long time. You can shampoo them like regular hair. You can also style your doll’s wig, and add hair accessories if you would like. Just like real people, a slightly new hairstyle or color can give your doll an entirely new-look. That’s pretty exciting.


Perfumes and colognes

It's Perfectly Normal to want your doll to smell great during sex. The smell of an amazing cologne or perfume can trigger some intense memories and make sex amazing. We don't want to stop anybody from enjoying this experience. However, we also I want you to avoid causing any unintentional damage. If you must use perfume or cologne, spray the dolls clothing rather than the doll itself. Fragrances are usually alcohol-based and are not good for silicone or TPE. The scent could also seep into the doll’s material and then turn. That would not be pleasant for anyone.

Women and Sex Dolls

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Yes, women do purchase and enjoy sex dolls. Sometimes they do this on their own, in other instances they do it alongside their partner. Like men, women use dolls to act out their sexual fantasies and to pleasure themselves.

Of course the interaction itself is a bit different. To put it simply, penetrating a sex doll is much different from being penetrated. To accommodate these differences, our male dolls have removable sex organs. Feel free to use this just as you would a dildo. This of course also works for males who prefer to bottom. Some of our customers who would rather catch than pitch prefer variations of the cowgirl and reverse cowgirl positions.

 

Other sex acts


Have no fear. Our dolls are made to be treated like people. Feel free to hold your doll, hug it, caress it, try new positions, and even get a bit rough with it. enjoy how realistic it feels to touch and make love to. Get creative and play out your fantasies. Some of our clients even have threesomes with their partners as well as their sex dolls.

Yes, very extreme behaviors can cause damage but normal sexual play is absolutely fine. When in doubt, go-slow and check for any signs of damage before you proceed.


Cleaning your sex doll

 

 

A clean and well-kept doll will last a long time. We've already provided you with some very thorough cleaning and care constructions for your doll. Just remember there are two important tools for helping you keep your doll clean and sanitary. The first is the vaginal irrigator. You can order this online or pick one up at your local sex shop. Don’t worry, if you choose to order this product online, most companies are very discreet. You simply fill the bulb syringe with water or soapy water and inserted into any cavity you have used. Just squeeze the bulb to flush out your doll. This will work for any orifice that you have used. If your doll has a removable vagina cleaning is even easier. Simply remove the vagina and take it to your sink or shower for cleaning.

We should note that using a condom is also an option. However, it isn’t necessary. It only takes a few minutes to go through the steps required to clean your doll.

Don't forget to follow our instructions for keeping the rest of your doll clean as well.  Wipe your doll down after each use, and make sure it is completely dry. Remove any tight clothing or anything that could stain. Some people choose to powder their doll before putting it into storage. If you choose to powder your doll, please stick with a simple, cornstarch based powder. It’s imperative that you wait until the doll is dry to apply the powder. Otherwise, it creates a pastey mess.


Sex Doll Repair


Your doll will last quite a long. The exact lifespan of your doll will depend on how often you use it, and how ‘intense’ your sessions are. In any case, our dolls are well-designed, made from quality materials, and quite robust. They rarely break. When they do, it’s usually quite easy to repair them.

We are happy to provide all of our customers with a repair kit for their dolls. We also make and sell replacement parts. If you are unable to complete a repair on your own, you may contact us. We may be able to repair your doll in house, and arrange to ship it back to you.


Customizing Your Doll


Every doll we create has been designed by amazing artists, is engineered by professionals, looks amazing, and feels just like a real woman. If you purchase one of our dolls ‘off the rack’, you will be quite satisfied. In fact, many of our customers have expressed their happiness to us.

Still, some of our clients want something a bit special. These discerning folks opt to have a doll designed and custom-built to their specifications. If you would like to build the doll of your dreams, contact us for more details. As long as you meet a few requirements, we will be very happy to work with you.


Traveling With Your Sex Doll


Some of our customers enjoy their dolls so much that they take them along wherever they go. If you are simply looking for some fun on the road, please know that there are several options for you. These are fairly portable.

Still, if you insist on taking a full-size doll with you, it can certainly be done. You simply treat it just as you would traveling with any large object that requires a bit of discretion. Many of our customers choose to ship their doll ahead of time. This way, it is there for them when they arrive. Just be aware that you will likely have to handle your doll on your own. Neither the delivery person or travel staff will be willing to assist.


Final Thoughts

 

We know that a sex doll is quite expensive. That's why we have created this guide. No matter how you use your sex doll we want every experience you have to be wonderful. If you follow the tips we have provided, your doll will be in great shape for years to come. Even better you'll be able to enjoy the time you spend with your doll so much more.

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